Benedictine monks cutting ties to Illinois school that hired gay coach

A community of Benedictine monks has cut its ties to Benet Academy in Lisle, Illinois, almost four months after the school hired a married gay lacrosse coach over its abbot's objections.

Citing "events in recent months," a Jan. 4 joint statement from the school's chancellor and board chairman said the Benedictine monks of St. Procopius Abbey had discerned that they "no longer have the resources needed for the governance and oversight" of Benet Academy.

The statement did not mention the school board of directors' decision last September to hire Amanda Kammes as the girls' lacrosse head varsity coach amid an outcry from students, faculty and alumni who were angry that the board had previously rescinded a job offer to Kammes because she is married to a woman.

"The Benet community is not dumb. We know why [the monks] are leaving, and I think a lot of people are OK with that," said Justin Smusz, an alumnus who graduated from Benet Academy in 2017.

Smusz, who is gay and helps run a Facebook support group for LGBTQ persons at Benet Academy, told NCR that the monks set the tone for the school's environment, which he described as not having been supportive for gay, lesbian and transgender students.

"I was involved in the music department. That's typically a safe space universally no matter where you are," he said. "However, I experienced in religion classes being told that being homosexual or acting upon homosexual acts is sinful. I experienced my friends being misgendered while I was there, and told to wear the uniform that did not reflect their gender identity."

A spokesman for Benet Academy told NCR in an email that Benedictine Fr. Austin Murphy, the abbot of St. Procopius Abbey who also serves as the school's chancellor, was not taking media interview requests.

In their Jan. 4 statement, Murphy and Dennis Flynn, the chairman of Benet Academy's board of directors, said St. Procopius Abbey will continue its governance role while "alternatives" are studied. They said Benet Academy will continue to operate "with an emphasis on academy excellence and Catholic identity within the Benedictine tradition."

In a subsequent statement posted on the school's website, Stephen Marth, the Benet Academy head of school, wrote of the school leadership's "commitment to ensuring that the Academy will maintain its Catholic identity, in the Benedictine tradition, for years to come."

Marth said "it is expected" that a committee composed of representatives from the Diocese of Joliet, the American Cassinese Congregation of Benedictines, the Benet board of directors, and the school administration "will collaborate on the successful completion" of creating a new governance model for Benet Academy.

When the news broke last September that Benet Academy deferred its employment discussions with Kammes after she listed her wife as an emergency contact, students, parents, alumni and faculty members protested. More than 3,000 people signed a petition urging the school to hire Kammes, an experienced lacrosse coach who is also a Benet alumna.

"Clearly we learned that [the monks] have a disagreement with how the majority of the students and parents felt, since we had such a negative response to their choosing to rescind their offer to Amanda," Smusz said.

Following a meeting of the Benet Academy board of directors, the school announced on Sept. 21, 2021, that Kammes was the right candidate for the job. A week later, Murphy released a statement in which he said he was "deeply troubled" by the school's decision, which he said called "into question its adherence to the doctrines of the Catholic faith."

"The matter raises the question of what a Catholic high school should require from those who work with and form its students. In particular, is it necessary that the witness of their public lives not be in opposition to Catholic moral teaching?" Murphy said.